I just want to say, to anyone coming to this page due to JAR's video, that situation happened seven years ago, and Kudo wasn't a part of the group then. The reaction's i've seen here are entirely misplaced, and completely unfair just because Kudo's partner is involved, as I was. This isn't JAR's fault, as he had no way to know who was involved, and likely assumed that as they're partners now, they were partners then.
Please, if you're coming here to leave comments about that video, bare in mind that Kudo and Lou (Who goes by Yuki now, btw) weren't involved back then and you're attacking someone over offences that aren't their own.
LOU WILL FACE JUSTICE! APOLOGIZE! but of course if she intends to run like a bitch ass coward, fine. then she deserves NO 2ND CHANCE! understand i have no qualms with you, but you GF is FUCKED UP!
If you have no qualms with me, why are you directing this comment at me?
Don't get me wrong. What Lou did was horrible. Even she recognizes it was horrible. She has made a public apology on twitter, even promoted the video itself because it's a good look at how she used to be.
She's my gf because she's changed since then. In the time I've known her, she's been one of the most kind and supportive people I've known.
She deeply regrets what she did. When we started dating, she started telling me bits and pieces of what she did. Over time she told me so much that when that video was uploaded and I watched it, none of it surprised me.
Go onto her Twitter, you'll see the post where she talks about the video, apologizes for how she used to be, and recommends people watch the video if they want to know what she used to be like.
I won't ask you to forgive her. Because well, what she did was indefensible. Even she recognizes that. But for me, what matters is who she is now, not who she was back then.
really im more angry that jar idolized lou yet... she did nothing as her friend group tore him open. im angry to learn that jar was silenced years ago... i'm not gonna say that she owes me anything because that frankly is stupid, all i want is justice for jar. despite the situation with lou im more pissed off at heather, with her online presence missing from the list it didn't feel so good... so when i made my comment above most of it came because of heather... for that unjust action i apologize... if jar forgives lou i have no reason to hate her.
It's alright, I can understand why you'd be angry. Unfortunately, as I really only know Lou from the people that were talked about, I can't really speak for anyone else. Even speaking for Lou doesn't really sit right with me because well, I'm not Lou and that stuff is better if it comes from her (which it has).
What I do know is that Lou is aware what she did was wrong, and she's apologized. She's also on twitter apologized directly to JAR. Now, whether Jar forgives Lou is entirely up to him. I wouldn't blame him if he doesn't. What happened was horrible, more than I can describe. It's not a wound that heals easily, and even when it does bits of it will stick with you.
Fuckin' clown
what